Saturday, September 29, 2012

Being Jobless & lonely

As I had no work in my office for past few months, I felt more alone. Unlike my college days, I didn't really enjoyed the spare time. Because, I wasn't with my family or I wasn't with my friends, I was alone. Even though, I was with my friends when they are free, I felt this is not enough. I want those days back, but I understood it's quite impossible as everyone got their own responsibilities, priorities etc.

 I was thinking a lot during that time. When you are alone you tend to think. You tend to think about everything, you observe a lot. There was many thoughts running in my mind. Actually, you MISS every one. We won't miss anyone until you remember them. When you don't do anything you will definitely think about everyone related to you and you feel that you are missing them. I actually understood what Morgan freeman was saying " GET BUSY LIVING, GET BUSY DYING".

Actually, I wasn't happy, I didn't satisfy with the things they are. I wanted to do something but I can't, I don't know whether i will do it in future or not. The reasons were simple responsibilities, a secure career, money etc. There are many constraints differ from individual to individual.
Resulting, mental sickness and frustration.

One thing I understood is from now we should manage to be happy, it won't come in the natural way.
Organization skills and time management skills plays a vital role.

Thinking like an optimist, everything is good for us. Being lonely and having no work for few months tell you how to live rest of your life.

Saturday, September 1, 2012

Life after College

At this stage we have pretty knowledge on various things and society. We join in an organization. Initially, the things are bit exciting new work place, new mates. We undergone training  and enjoyed in weekends. We waited for most important thing first salary. Few of us donated some to orphanages, few of us went to temples and drop some money in Hundis, few of us brought new cellphones, few of us gave money to parents etc. We have bought whatever we wanted to buy. For few months you seems to enjoy but after few months unknowingly we feel that this is not happening. We needed so much money as soon as we join in any organization. We wanted to buy everything we wanted to buy whatever it may be. We wanted to achieve our childhood dreams or anything we wanted. Then we get realize that this is not gonna happen with our job we have to do something else to fulfill our needs. Then we get realize the most important thing that am i interested in what i am doing right now? what are my interests? What are the ways and what we need to live life happily? At this point of time we realize that 'I should have done this then, I would be like this today'.