Sunday, October 14, 2012

Respect bro

Respect is most important thing that one should have in him/herself. Respect is a good thing, a positive feeling towards other person. Rudeness is the word for lack of respect.
I often see people behave rudely with a waiter in restaurant or bar, a security guard of an organization. You might be wondering if you are one of them. It represents disrespect towards that person. This is most stupid human behavior and mentality.
I will say the reason, people respect others only those who are achieved something and got notified by them. Ex: celebrities, sports persons, relatives and friends who earned more money or in big position in any field,caste, religion, region, political background, self benefits. People respect their accomplishments not them. This is simply a fake respect. I don't like it. A waiter in bar might work hard to get into that position that you don't know and you don't need to because you are in big position than him.
This happens really in our daily life if you consider a scenario of a gang of friends the following things might happen if you observe:
  • A richest person might misbehave with a person who don't have much money.
  • A jobholder might act rudely with a person who is unemployed.
  • Any another serious or dominant guy who might use or dominate another person for the simple reason he can't say No or he don't want to be rude.
Few people behave as mentioned above unconsciously. When they observe themselves or someone says to him and if they realize and feel sorry and apologize then it's OK. But, few people know what is wrong and what is right and they knew it that they are doing intentionally. I have a word for them.
  • If you are born to a family which under poverty line, What you gonna do?
  • If even luck didn't favor you in getting job, What you gonna do?
  • If a person lost control and slap you in a public, What you gonna do?
 Respecting is a good thing helps building relationships and having faith in each other.  Respect each other for +ve's rather than pointing -ve's in others. No one is perfect. No one is greater than anyone else. Respect people who have good personality not the things behind that personality.

“I don't care if you're black, white, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, short, tall, fat, skinny, rich or poor. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Simple as that.”  ― Eminem

“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.” ― Albert Einstein
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